You Trained for This. Your Costume Should Show Up Too. Accessorize Yourself.

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  • Empowering Adornments

    Because the world doesn’t need another “dainty necklace.”

    She’s bold.
    She’s sensual.
    She’s cute & dangerous in the best way.

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  • What We Stand For

    Kate — Once a Showgirl. Got tired of jewelry that wouldn't stay still. So, she changed that and Chokehold was born.

    Body autonomy. Always.
    Body neutrality + positivity. All bodies deserve adornment.
    Feminist fire. Burn the patriarchy, add more sparkle.
    Self-worship as rebellion.
    Glamour that bites back.

    Our Full Story 

I love my choker! She fits perfectly.

~ Satoko

FAQ's

What if I need a different size?


We got you. Every neck is different and we're not here to leave yours behind.


Just message or email us before ordering and we'll make sure it fits perfectly. A choker that's too tight or too loose isn't serving anyone.

iconic@kateandamber.com

What materials are used? Will it tarnish?

We primarily use stainless steel chains for hypoallergenic purposes, longevity, and everyday wear. Stainless steel is resistant to tarnishing and fading.
Upcycled elements may vary (vintage metals, enamel, crystals), which is part of their charm and uniqueness.

Will this feel heavy or uncomfortable to wear?

No — each piece is thoughtfully balanced for wearability.
While statement-making in appearance, our necklaces are designed to feel comfortable for extended wear without pulling or strain.

Do you accept returns or exchanges?

Because many pieces are one-of-a-kind and/or upcycled, all sales are final. We do offer free repairs so that you can continue to cherish your fave Chokers.

This allows us to create sustainably, avoid waste, and keep pricing fair. We encourage thoughtful purchasing and provide detailed photos and descriptions to help you buy with confidence.

Please email us at iconic@kateandamber.com and we will walk you through next steps to repair your piece.

How should I care for my necklace?

  • Store in a dry place when not in use

  • Avoid direct contact with perfumes or harsh chemicals

  • Gently wipe with a soft cloth after wear

Vintage and upcycled elements benefit from gentle care.